What Should I Call You?
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He wakes up and rolls over
Sees the love of his life
And he loves him just the same
As a husband loves his wife.
Been together for ten years
Yet no ring on his finger
Because America the Brave
Has homophobic fear that lingers.
Met when they were eighteen
So young and so alive
But now without equality
They spend nights awake, crying.
"Let's run away", he says
"To a place where we can be
And have no one discriminate
On you or on me."
He shakes his head no
Because to him, it isn't fair
To have to run away to prove
Something to people that don't care.
"Our love is just the same,"
He says with tears in his eyes
"I love you and treat you
Like you are the ultimate prize.
These people are so afraid
Of something they don't understand
What damage will be done
If I put a ring on your hand?"
Will the world rise to flames
And ashes all around?
Will the cities, towns and buildings
Come crashing to the ground?"
Their love is their own
Not yours or mine to question
Who cares where they marry
And build their family nest in?
But we fight and we argue
Against a thing that's totally right
And just and true and maybe
One day we'll see the light.
To that man who's trapped
In this neverending maze
I'm sorry for your troubles
And I'm sorry for the games.
Our country doesn't understand
So we have to let them know
That they hold no right to stand
Up against us and say no.
To that man who wants to marry
The eternal love of his life
You should all feel his sorrow
His pain and his strife.
Because every morning he'll wake up
And roll over to see
A man that's not his husband
And might not ever be.