when we have self-esteem

we accept responsibility for

and having feeling in control of our own selves

and every part of our lives

comfortable acceptance of reality

we don't blame ourselves for our problems

setting attainable goals

and have realistic expectations

holding ourselves accountable

for all that occurs in our lives

believing that ultimately

what happens to us does occur

primarily based on choices and decisions,

rather than outside influences

it is truly amazing 

how we have the power to make changes for the better

instead

we alter our decisions

and have the nerve to blame the whole world

for one's failures

while we should consider other's opinions

about how to carry ourselves

we've chosen

to be our own final authority

to give the greatest weight

to our own ideas

of what is right and best for us

control we need to exercise

is not control over others

but ourselves

one's reactions and responses

we need to change the circumstances

to suite us when it is appropriate

and change our attitiude about them when it is not

that's how you don't age quickly

and live life in all prosperity