writing as life support
If I did not write, I would die.
This is not hyperbole. This is not
Dramatic, attention-seeking tactics.
This is not me toeing the edge of the roof, again,
Knowing full well I’m afraid of heights, falling, and dying.
This is fact: the world has been alive and breathing
For four billion years, and I will die
If I do not write what’s settled in my bones,
It will swallow me whole.
Writing has always been easier.
When I was in preschool, no, kindergarten,
No… first, second, third, fourth…
Let me start this again:
When I was in elementary school,
Writing with my shaking hands and bad pencil position
was easier than using my
Broken mouth, my slurring mouth,
My lisping mouth, my everything all wrong mouth.
Writing was being understood, for once,
Without intervention, without translation.
Writing was the freedom that my immigrant thoughts
Had been dreaming of.
And when I was in tenth grade and met
Face to face for the first time with
Lifelong health issues, mental illnesses
with no easy cure, I cried-- then
Reached in the dark for a pen.
I was convinced that if I could
Focus long enough, I’d write myself
Back to health, write myself okay again.
And now I know, I was equal parts foolish
And brilliant.
I will never write my sickness out of me
But I can write it into public displays
Of affectionate affliction
I can write love letters to the doctors who say
People like me don’t know how to love, tell them
To shove it, I will love and love and love and--
I’m cycling the wheel of emotions out of control and
Love will always be my favorite.
And this isn’t to say that love never hurts, that love is never difficult.
But love is rewarding. Love never leaves me
Sobbing on the steps, love never tells me
To weave between fast traffic in the slow dark, love never hopes for the worst.
Love leaves me exhausted on my best friend’s living room floor,
Crying because I made it, I made it. Love catches me hoping for
Tomorrow. Love keeps the nerves down better than any medicine
I didn’t have the money to try.
I’m writing thank you notes to past selves,
‘thank you for being alive thank you for being alive thank you for staying here
because life has turned into something so beautiful you
would weep. You are weeping, I’m sorry for
the tearstains, I don’t remember when I started
crying.
xoxo I love you.’
I’m writing to remind myself that I
Do not destroy like the way I think about myself
In nightmares.
I create, I’m creating, I’m creative.
I am so much more than the world has made me out to be.
If I did not write, I would die.
This isn’t a call-and-response for attention. This is not
Exaggeration. The world cannot swallow me whole,
If I ratchet its mouth open with my words.