Fear of Attraction
When I was nine years old my father and my brother
teased me for being unable to keep a secret. Oh yes I can, I said,
I have something I’ve never told anyone.
They laughed and told me to tell them,
but if I told them I
sucked in my belly all day,
then they’d have
known how much fatter
I really was.
When I was 15 years old, I turned to my best friend and said I actually have a good body,
don’t I? To anyone else I would have sounded
vain, but she knew it was my first time
I’m glad you finally noticed,
she said.
Three months later, the body I finally claimed was taken from me
on the carpet of a living room floor. The body I finally
learned to love became the
body that allowed men to prey
on me.
I stuffed it with 2,000 calories a day.
Twenty-one brought another man, much like the first, who reminded me
once again that my body was never my own.
I’m twenty-one-and-a-half years old and I still buy my pants so that they have room to grow.
I have two closets.
One,
the broom cupboard
in our kitchen.
The other, the two sliding mirror doors
in my parent’s house
overflowing with clothes that I rip off
when I see them reflected back at me
I tell myself just two more months
and they’ll fit again.
I am twenty-one-and-a-half years old
and I have two closets.
But I’ll be damned if they let me keep it from becoming one.