“If you keep it up you can go wherever you’d like.”

Are my dreams furthered?

Many wish to attend Notre Dame, IU, or Purdue

Stanford, Harvard, or Yale

“You’re years away from having to worry about that.”

Are my dreams deferred?

Many want to be popstars, presidents, and princesses

Lawyers, doctors, and architects

“It’s sad [relationships] are already ruined for you.”

Are my dreams deleted?

Many wish to fall in love, get married, and have kids

Nice car, home, and family