The Mask
I never saw the point of hiding
Something that was right there
For all the world to see: who I
Was. I didn’t want to bury it deep
Inside where it would die. So I
Left it out for the world to see.
I lived in a world of isolation
Because I let the world know
Who I really was. I didn’t pretend
To smile or laugh or cry. I didn’t
Pretend to be perfect or beautiful.
I refused to pretend at all.
It was a lonely existence, but I
Didn’t care who was around me.
I was company enough. There was
So much going on inside that
Sometimes I couldn’t remember
To breathe or eat or sleep.
There would be moments when
The loneliness became suffocating
And I ached for a friend or two.
But that would all pass in
The blink of an eye and I would
Be right back where I was before.
But that didn’t last for long. The
Loneliness was stifling but the
World was worse. People wanted
Me to be who they wanted,
Not who I really was. And there
Was no way to escape them.
It didn’t matter that I liked myself.
The world didn’t like me. So I was
Beaten down, bloodied and bruised
And forced into a Mask that
Hid who I was inside and slowly
Destroyed what the world despised.
The Mask stung and itched and
I wanted to rip it off but I couldn’t
Because if I did parts of me would
Go with it and then I’d be lost forever.
The Mask was chewing me up
And spitting me out.
The Mask began to eat at who
I was because it had to remake
Me into what the world wanted:
A cookie cutter person who
Fit into their simple definitions
And never stepped out of line.
But I didn’t want to fit a mold.
I didn’t want to change who I
Was. I was happy being
Alone and isolated and so I
Fought the Mask with all of the
Energy I could muster.
For a while, I succeeded. By gritting
My teeth and biting my cheek the
Fake smile became dimmer and the
Glass eyes lost their glimmer. The
Plastic cheeks lost their shine and
The Mask began to crack.
But then the Mask fought back.
The cracks began to pinch and tear
Into my skin. The smile stretched
Wider and the eyes became burning
Coals. My teeth began to rot from being
Clenched tight so I took a breath.
And the Mask tightened its grip
I began to slip faster away
From who I had been. I lost all of
The ground I had held and the Mask
Began to become me. I was too
Weak to continue fighting.
With the Mask protecting me I continued
Living. With the fake smile firmly in place
People gravitated to my side, recognizing
A kindred spirit in the plastic that hid
Who I had been. No one asked what
Was hidden behind the Mask.
Even those who knew me before
Were unable to distinguish the new
From the old me. The Mask became
So engrained within me that we were
One and the same. Two beings in one
Body, fighting for dominance.
Sometimes I would be winning and the
Mask would crack a little bit wider and
The smile would seem a little less real
But it came in increments so small that
even I couldn’t tell if It was real or if I
Was just giving myself false hope.
Then it happened. The world began
To change. People across the globe
Tore off their Masks and showed their
Hidden faces to the sun. They embraced
Who they were and shunned the mold
The world had forced them into.
I tried to join the celebration and throw
My Mask to the ground but I couldn’t
Bring myself to rip the plastic from my
Skin. I was unsure who I had been
Before the Mask, and the fear of the
Unknown stayed my hand.
So I let myself stay hidden behind the
Lies the world had forced upon me
Years before and I let that fear control
Who I was. I began to despair that
I would never really escape and that
The world would forever define me.
I couldn’t sleep or eat or drink and some
Days it was hard to breathe- harder than
It had been in the days of loneliness. I was
Letting anxiety eat my stomach and distress
Guide my heart. I was afraid of giving up
The fear I had lived with for so long.
So I ran away from what I had known for
Years and I began to clench my teeth again.
The breathing became easier and the
Cracks in the Mask widened. I was alone
In the world but I wasn’t lonely because I
Was surrounded by people like me.
We were all fighting the Masks controlling who
We were. We made slow progress and the
Cracks became wider and the glass eyes
Popped out and the plastic cheeks rotted
Away. One by one we seperated who we
Used to be from whom the world created.
The day I removed chunks of the Mask the
World brightened, food tasted good again
And I could see clearly. The definitions of the
World had fallen away and I no longer had to
fear that the Mask would suffocate me.
I was finally free.
Pieces of the mask are still in place and it
Will probably never be completely gone but
Now I know that I am not alone. There are
People all around me fighting against the
Masks of the world. I am not alone.
And I can win.