Love they say is beautiful, wonderful, amazing, interesting, and sweet. Even some say, love is mild and meek.

Love is as well described as something unforseen and can be seen. However, some still regard love as non-existent,

stupid, crazy, wicked, blind, sick, and on and on to an extreme extent.

But, whatever one’s definition for love may be, it is to be enjoyed and not to make one feel imprisoned.

An imprisoned love to me would be like a regime of a dictator. Dictator in the sense that, just one of the

partners says and decides it all and does not want a competitor.

While the other partner, no matter how bad the decision is cannot object but succumb to it at all time-no matter what.

If this other partner is asked, “Why on earth will you accept such inhumane decision? The response would be something like:

It's okay, I am fine with whatever decision he/she makes. I love him/her, and I believe it is for our own good.

Relationships like this is no longer of True Love but of Lost, and of Imprisoned Love.

Although ladies often tend to be victims, it could be vice versa. If a lady is asked why she chooses to be imprisoned rather

than be loved, she may say it does not matter.

If the reasons behind these responses towards the so called relationship is to be delved in, the result will be similar or close

to-the guy in question is her first love, he took her virginity, he stood by her when the ex-boyfriend left, or they have been

through a lot together.

One can always think of every other disingenuous reasons to make a woman/lady act stupid. She's always got other reasons.

Happiness they say can be found from within, but I also say, it can and should be found in one’s love too. If not, I would advice-

Get out now! Your happiness now depicts your happy future, so be happy.