In the short lapse between life and death, an individual is taught by society who to love and how to act. 

It angers me that so many people follow what they are told. 

You have a brain, do no allow it to be brainwashed by someone else's values. 

Love any woman, man or transgender human you want. Do not let any other person tell you how to feel. 

Go to any place you want. Do not let any other person tell you that you cannot achieve your dreams.

Have a child or don't. Do not let any other person make a decision about your body for you.

Whatever you do, do it with as much or as little heart as you please because it is YOUR life. The choices you make affect YOU, do not allow someone else to make YOUR choices.